Control

This is profound and applicable in so many different ways - especially pertaining to marriage. Don't wait until you have more time together, health improves, finances are in order, or a certain task you requested is done to decide to feel peace or appreciation. If every single moment is maximized together and lived with appreciation, you will find the perfection in the circumstance with your spouse for always. It's truly not about "getting there"; it's about "being there."